If your feeling bogged down, frustrated, or spent with the process - and find yourself arguing about drapes or kitchen island heights, please remember that Rome wasn't built in a day. Make an agreement with your significant other to not worry/talk/look at/or debate about anything related to redoing or buying for the house for 1 week (if your on a deadline, make it 48 hours). Take this time to enjoy one another, and what you have accomplished. It is very important to get settled in the new home/office/nursery/etc. but not at the expense of your happiness and relationship. I promise that if you can do this, you will return to the task with a fresh set of eyes. More often then not, you might find that it wasn't the crimson drapes you found to be "overbearing and intense" - it might have just been the energy around the decision!
For more tips on how to design your house with your partner stay tuned!!
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